When you bring a child into the world, everything can either become clear or your life can turn into chaos. You hear of people meeting at the beach, in a club, the laundry mat or the grocery store, which is why I should have known it was a sign when I met her at a funeral. We hadn't known each other for 3 weeks before we found that I would soon be a proud father and somehow, I was happy. All I wanted was to have legacy. A child who would be happy to see me when I return from work. Someone who would depend on me and who could be consoled with my words. So, when momma was pregnant, there was the normal mood swings, tantrums and cravings that I